Developed by Bob and Mary Goulding, Redecision Therapy is a powerful way of resolving family of origin issues as well as internal conflicts. As children grow up they are given positive and negative messages by the adults in their lives and society.. They make decisions as adults based on these early decisions.. The negative messages are no longer useful and are at the root of self-defeating patterns in their lives. Redecision Therapy empowers clients to identify and redecide those negative decisions and make life enhancing decisions that serves them as adults.